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inahandbasket ([personal profile] inahandbasket) wrote2010-04-07 01:39 pm

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It's my birthday! I'm 30! holy crap!

I just got word that a major project is now behind schedule and won't hit it's install date by enough of a margin that my built-in estimate padding is useless as well, and I'll have to inform senior management that we're changing the install date.

But hey, it's my birthday!
And it's a gorgeous day with the temperature in the 80's! That counts for something... right?

Trying not to let work ruin my good mood.

I want to compile a list of things to accomplish in this decade, anyone have suggestions for me?
What should I do before the tens digit rolls over again?
Serious, silly, all will be accepted and considered.


Lovin' life. :-)
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[personal profile] muffyjo 2010-04-07 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Making that kind of list requires a confession of the things you've already accomplished! (so we can find new ideas, you see!)

Oh, and Happy Birthday!
Edited 2010-04-07 17:42 (UTC)
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[personal profile] dot_fennel 2010-04-07 05:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday!

[identity profile] greyhoundliz.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday. Swim the Hellespont, maybe?

[identity profile] oceanic.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Woo milestone birthdays! Happiness!

I think you should take an enormous and overly ambitious woodworking project and actually see it through to completion. Bonus points if it's something you'll use in the house (like a bed or table) and can pass on down generations.

I will go hide from the slappy hands of the prosicated now, for encouraging you to take on more woodworking stuff than you already have. ;D But the key idea was to actually finish the whole production, so you can have a craft object to be proud of. That'd be great to point to at the end of the decade. "I made that!"

[identity profile] countlibras.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:29 pm (UTC)(link)
congrats!

I actually liked being 30. (31 was no fun, but I have high hopes for 32)

[identity profile] countlibras.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:29 pm (UTC)(link)
and I know! You should make me a cello! ;)

[identity profile] oceanic.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Pssht. Promises! I'm still waiting for my magnetic bubinga knife holder, if you're that far ahead... ;)

[identity profile] countlibras.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I would try my hand at it except 1) I lack tools and 2) I lack woodworking knowledge. lol!

Um, make me a cello and I'll try to make you a suit in exchange? :D

[identity profile] oceanic.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:47 pm (UTC)(link)
tee hee.
I will commence with the poking now. All complaints can be sent to the Department of PSHAW, Floor Whatever, Room Sweet Revenge.

[identity profile] eclectician.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
You mean like the electric bass body I saw last time I was in your basement? =)
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[personal profile] cutieperson 2010-04-07 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
happy birthday!!

i second the woodworking project finishing idea :)

[identity profile] miss-chance.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 07:20 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG! You're so *OLD*!!!! ;-) ;-)


here's your suggestion for your next decade:

At least once a year for the next ten years pick something you want, that you have no idea whether you can have or not, whether you can accomplish or not, or even whether you're really sure it's the best of possible things you could pick, and proclaim unequivocally "I want this!" and go after it.

:)

Happy Birthday! Make a wish. :)

[identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday!!!

[identity profile] bluewillowtree.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 07:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday!

I remember you talking about making a bass a few years ago. Did you ever do that? If so, congrats, and I'm sorry for missing it! But if not, that seems like a good project...

[identity profile] chillguru.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
happy birthday!

couldn't have happened to a nicer guy. ;)

(Anonymous) 2010-04-07 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday! (I am so terrible at birthdays, so i am grateful for people who remind me of them in a very public and obvious way.)

Edit your previous to-do-before-you-die list. Give yourself permission to give up on the things you no longer actually want, but but have been meaning to do for so long that you're totally in a rut about 'em. Then do it -- give up, make apologies, give shit away, do whatever you need to do to let go of that angst. If there are obvious omissions - things you'd like to do, but think you can't because there are so many other things to do first, now's the time to add them.

Make a pact with yourself to kiss your wife and tell her you love her (and really mean it) every single day for the next ten years.

[identity profile] jimmi-obadger.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
that was me.

[identity profile] rainbow-spork.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I have no useful suggestions, but HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

[identity profile] jbsegal.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy happy happy! And fun fun, with the voip. :/

[identity profile] crouchback.livejournal.com 2010-04-07 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday!
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[personal profile] muffyjo 2010-04-08 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Cop out! ;)

But in a different way of thinking about it, I think that anything you do, should be things you'd be proud or amused to tell the stories of when sitting on the porch of the nursing home in your old age. You know, things like:

  • Make sure to travel,
  • to see a third world country,
  • to travel by train,
  • to visit a different climate
  • visit some of the world's major art museums
  • go to a concert in another country for one of your favorite bands
  • take a class in something not even vaguely related to your job
  • Read a story to a child, complete with different voices and funny arm movements.
  • push your comfort zones (safely)
  • Be someone's consequential stranger
  • jasra: (baking)

    [personal profile] jasra 2010-04-08 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
    Happy birthday!

    [identity profile] cinnabarine.livejournal.com 2010-04-08 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
    Happy birthday! :)

    [identity profile] veek.livejournal.com 2010-04-08 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
    Wow. I'll just latch on to this one, and second it with enthusiasm.

    [identity profile] eclectician.livejournal.com 2010-04-08 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
    I was referring to state of doneness, not difficulty.

    [identity profile] squirrella.livejournal.com 2010-04-08 02:06 pm (UTC)(link)
    happy day-later birthday.

    bicycle from where you live to your folks place?

    [identity profile] squirrella.livejournal.com 2010-04-08 03:29 pm (UTC)(link)
    our neighbor just attempted a PHL to Clarks Summit ride over two days and a good friend of ours did a ride from VT to Philadelphia over a week or so last year. i think you possess a spirit similar to theirs and think that would be a good 40x40 challenge.
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    Happy birthday

    [personal profile] drwex 2010-04-08 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)
    and many joyous returns of the day.

    I'm not at all fond of the "Do X by Y" type projects. Mostly it feels like you're doing a lot of right things - make a loving family, create the home you want to live in, keep your work interesting and have an idea of how to move it forward, do things that help you define who you are.

    If you can keep doing those five things over this next decade I can't see how you'd go wrong.

    [identity profile] jimmi-obadger.livejournal.com 2010-04-08 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
    I don't believe you. What about your woodworking list? Your home repair projects? Your job goals? Other hobbies (brewing, photography, music)? Are any aspects of these not serving you as well as they could be? Or have they in some way become more important than you are currently admitting to yourself?